Best Of All The Relationship-Friendship
When it
gets really hard to hold on to the situations you go through, to whom do you
divulge? My best friend, that is what my heart speaks aloud in every miserable
situation, I find myself in. Whenever you find yourself in a dilemma, where you
do not wish to embrace your flaws, there is a person who does; your best
friend. The person whom you choose among est those hundreds whom you met
throughout the journey you made till now. There is always a person to whom you
will always look up to, and that is the same individual who protects you from
everything which can be harmful to you. Teaches you to be yourself, and
embraces you with all your flaws. That is what best friends are, and that is
exactly what they are known for; they stand out of the crowd and cheer you to
get better every day, because the distance in friendship never matters.
In my cloudy days, no matter how far you were, you made me feel secure; where distance was not our choice. There have been days and months we did not meet, there was only one way to communicate our dejection and happiness that was just a call away. There have been days when I felt betrayed by others and I had her back. She never hung up until and unless it was not a choice for me that she was right. It seems like yesterday when we used to skip classes together and wander around, and today when we are usually away from each other, making a better future for ourselves. I still remember the day you were turned down from your dream, that day bought us to anguish. It took me forever to make her understand whatever happened was for her good. There have been times when we both have tugged each other out of problems which we never dreamt of getting into. Every day brings up with new challenges for us and we never fail to laugh on it as if it never happened to us. Our lives have mostly been on the same page; from craving for love to loving the wrong person and ending up in a wrong way, in the first place.
We both have escaped hurdles and scoldings at the same time with our similar taste in choices. Sometimes, you have been at my rescue and others were on my side. We desperately wanted to get back into shape but never actually followed our diet; from which I remember, hogging around has been our favorite escapes ever. Before we finished our schools, it was always about us getting a good place before we started our tuition. I still remember how we used the coupons, which never belonged to us and bought all different things from the supermarket that pleased our eyes! The one thing I was taught by her which I still practice and still let others know for their healing is – “let it hurt, until it stops hurting.” This had an everlasting effect on me when I had my emotional breakdown.
I still recall the day when you were leaving, I acted the strongest person and I was busy peeping around ignoring you with the fear of dropping a tear. I feared losing you. I had the fear of letting you go to a new place where you will make new best friend, and believe me, I still live with that fear. Although, we have been in a long distance, it still makes sense to both of us when things get rough and we reach out for each other. From handling all of your love life infatuations, I definitely deserve a medal for you being the destroyer and me being the preserver of your peace; and still not getting tired of it, are you? I have seen you at your worst, even though not there to rise you up back at the same time, the only disadvantage of being long distanced. But, still no matter what we kept it going, no matter how hard it was.
In my cloudy days, no matter how far you were, you made me feel secure; where distance was not our choice. There have been days and months we did not meet, there was only one way to communicate our dejection and happiness that was just a call away. There have been days when I felt betrayed by others and I had her back. She never hung up until and unless it was not a choice for me that she was right. It seems like yesterday when we used to skip classes together and wander around, and today when we are usually away from each other, making a better future for ourselves. I still remember the day you were turned down from your dream, that day bought us to anguish. It took me forever to make her understand whatever happened was for her good. There have been times when we both have tugged each other out of problems which we never dreamt of getting into. Every day brings up with new challenges for us and we never fail to laugh on it as if it never happened to us. Our lives have mostly been on the same page; from craving for love to loving the wrong person and ending up in a wrong way, in the first place.
We both have escaped hurdles and scoldings at the same time with our similar taste in choices. Sometimes, you have been at my rescue and others were on my side. We desperately wanted to get back into shape but never actually followed our diet; from which I remember, hogging around has been our favorite escapes ever. Before we finished our schools, it was always about us getting a good place before we started our tuition. I still remember how we used the coupons, which never belonged to us and bought all different things from the supermarket that pleased our eyes! The one thing I was taught by her which I still practice and still let others know for their healing is – “let it hurt, until it stops hurting.” This had an everlasting effect on me when I had my emotional breakdown.
I still recall the day when you were leaving, I acted the strongest person and I was busy peeping around ignoring you with the fear of dropping a tear. I feared losing you. I had the fear of letting you go to a new place where you will make new best friend, and believe me, I still live with that fear. Although, we have been in a long distance, it still makes sense to both of us when things get rough and we reach out for each other. From handling all of your love life infatuations, I definitely deserve a medal for you being the destroyer and me being the preserver of your peace; and still not getting tired of it, are you? I have seen you at your worst, even though not there to rise you up back at the same time, the only disadvantage of being long distanced. But, still no matter what we kept it going, no matter how hard it was.
We fall together, we rise together and we grow together, but we never back stab each other and that is what keeps us together. The one who does not stop fighting back from your side and believing in you. The one you need to worry about, not everyone with whom you indulge who shows zero efforts to keep you in their life. The fear of being judged might have preoccupied our mind, but it never came from the one who is ready to fight for you in every bad day, or unhealthy environment you had or you are living in.
“You may lose each friend one day but you would not lose a best friend any day” Distance might spring out relationship problems, but would never harm a long distance friendship. The only choice you would never repent in your life.
“No distance of place or lapse of time can lessen the friendship of those who are thoroughly persuaded of each other’s worth.” – Robert Southey
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